THE WORLD HAS CHANGED

Dear friends, The world has changed. Everything has shifted. There’s no doubt COVID-19 has changed all of us, in a…

OUT OF DATE

Dating and the widow. The widow and dating. I really hope Mum isn’t reading this, but I’m sure she is (hello Mum!)…

CELEBRATE GOOD TIMES – COME ON

It’s Craig’s birthday today. Happy birthday to you Craig, I hope heaven is serving you up a feast and a few frothies to…

YEAR TWO

Year two is done and dusted. Thank goodness. In all honesty, year two of grieving has been an absolute bastard.…

10 EXTRA STAGES OF GRIEF

In the 1960’s, psychiatrist, Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, wrote a book and identified five stages of grief. You might have…

HOW’S HEIDI?

How’s Heidi? A question I get asked more often than not, and it’s only natural. In this crazy whirlwind I have found…

PSYCHED UP!

It’s another ordinary Wednesday and I’ve just made an exit from yet another appointment with my psychologist. I can’t…

BABY, BABY, BABY

Losing my husband taught me a great deal about loss. In those early days, all I could feel was total loss, because I…

450 WEDDINGS AND A FUNERAL

Oh how I wish this was the beginning of a British romantic comedy. Alas,this was not quite the case when I found myself…